My nation have welcomed another decision which says adultery is no more a crime. Having an extra marital affair isn’t a crime. If the partner attempts a suicide and the reason is the partner adultery then it is considered as a crime. Otherwise Chalne do!!
Supreme Court struck down as unconstitutional section 497 of IPC
The law punished the married man for the offence of adultery if he had sexual relationship with a married women.
“without the consent or connivance of her husband”
It was a law which was 158 years old.
The bench of Supreme Court which were having great minds like Justice D. Misra, Justice R F Nariman, Justice A M khanwilkar, Justice D Y Chandrachun, Justice Indu Malhotra.
They stated that “When parties to a marriage lose their moral commitment to the relationship it create dent in the marriage and it will depend upon the parties how to deal with the situation, some may exonerate and live together and some may seek divorce, a punishment is unlikely to establish commitment”
They added that the law worked as a deterrent against spouses going astray.
It’s true that
Man is not a master of his wife.
My opinion is
“Make your love so strong that no adultery will be allowed or assumed ever”
Adultery is bad.
When we are married we are adults and no more those teenagers whose hormones are going crazy and are immature.
Adults know which partner suits them the best. What will be good and with whom they can spend their whole life.
Truth is, there are compromises and sacrifices in the relationship but the institution of marriage is vital for a good and healthy society.
Marriage is beautiful.
Look out around you,
You will find that person with whom you will love to live.
Your heart knows.
But we shall be aware of the fact that even when there wasn’t any freedom given by the court people used to have relationship outside of the marriage. So, nothing is changing in that sense.
Look, did people were ever afraid to fall or sleep with another person before. It used to happen then/before as well.
So, nothing new.
It’s like these things which are already going on and we have already learned to consume..
The law is coming and telling us that it’s okay.
Haha!! We were already okay with that.
We already accepted it. And we are living it. Now!
And the people who are in love also exist.
So!! For those who are shocked by these…
It’s time to change the songs you listen to.
It’s time to change the way you allow someone to rule over your mind.
It’s time to accept new India.
It’s time to let go of the laws which provoked people in some way and stopped a few.
Where a man having lots of affairs were called to be a stud while women was given bad names.
It’s good for women..
No more need of over bearing your husband’s who scare you telling you that he will get 65 women like you…
No more of being total submissive and a pativrata if he isn’t respecting you and loving you.
Ladies!! You have right to seek pleasure .
To love him the way no other women ever could..
Those hungry for a good relationship..
It’s time to build..
Keeping Trust and transparency.
It’s time to make your love strong.
Which another person can’t think of breaking…
It’s the time to kick his ass,
Which touches other women too..
It’s time to be free and welcome love.
It’s a good institution.
Things were happening before as well.
But I believe in marriage and when it feels something’s wrong discuss and find solution and let them live the way they want to.
Let go of that if that matters alot.
But a good man is who, who never leaves her.
A good women is who, who loves her marriage.. She have chosen him…
Your heart just knows!!
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